There was a time in my life when I lost direction. I forgot my purpose because of circumstances and tough situations I was going through. I took giving up as the best option. I became suicidal because I felt like I had noone, even if I was surrounded by a lot of people.

Suddenly, something from within softly spoke to me. It enlightened me about how strong I was, stronger than the problems I was facing that were meant to make me even stronger. I don’t know if this is going to sound crazy. I looked into the mirror and I got myself together. I was willing to completely die to any form of me that I had been, so that I would birth the woman that I was becoming. I was willing to get out of any toxic relationship I was involved in. I was willing to walk alone. I allowed myself to feel the pain after falling, and became bold enough to keep moving with one broken leg, I had to better limp for miles than to not get up.

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Dear strong woman….
It’s okay to be not okay
It’s okay to feel like you are the only one living an awful life
Falling can be an option when you feel weak, but what is important is getting up and resuming your journey from the last step you had, but before you get up, check out for what made you fall.

I want you to realise that you have not come this far to only come this far. You have not invested so much time, dedication and hard work in creating something huge for yourself and in turning your dreams into reality only to give up.

Don’t you dare think about giving up!

You could be only a day away from succeeding. This life is yours to deal with. Only you have to choose weather you want it to be a failure or success.

Sooner or later, you’ll just be fine.

Stop spending time planning on what you are gonna so after failing,rather focus on making your dreams a reality, focus on making something work and push forward. The reason why most women don’t become what they want is that they are too attached to who they have been and yet you hear it all the time when they say I’ve always been like this. They let situations define them. They become what the world is persiving them to be and let their dreams fade away in the process. They unknowingly give up in their future.

I want you to realise that making your dreams a reality is supposed to put you to trial over and over again. It is supposed to hurt. Imagine pouring your heart into something and you don’t see it happen the way you had planned it. It surely hurts. This is the point where others choose to throw in the towel. #DARE TO BE DIFFERENT

This is where the grit comes in, you gotta keep going even if you don’t see any changes!
Just be the best version of yourself, leverage the lioness traits in you and never give up.